Well we finally decided to move
Trae out of our room in the bassinet (that he hated) into his crib. We assumed he would hate that too. Boy were we wrong, if only we could have figured that out sooner. We are able to just put him in the crib after he eats at dinner time and he goes right to sleep and just wakes up one time to eat and goes right back to bed until the morning.
Hallelujah!!!